What we actually love is ourselves full of satisfaction 
We say we love another but what we actually love is ourselves full of satisfaction. If you have someone that you love now, imagine the situation that you lose the person in a sudden accident. We hope that that does not happen, but if such a misfortune happens, of what would you be most afraid? Isn’t it “my pain” from losing my love? Isn’t it such a terrible pain that you might feel as if you fell into hell?